No, I don’t mean you or me, in the midst of a room or a gathering, being the center of attention. I am taking about the quiet moments that we all spend by ourselves, thinking about the world going on around us. Sometimes, I delay the introspection by watching a video on youtube. Or catching another movie or show on Netflix or Amazon Prime. And then another. And then another. As if delay leads to forgetting, to putting aside for another day. Do we think so little of ourselves that we don’t want to spend the time understanding our thoughts, not listening to what our hearts and minds, in the silence of the moment, is trying to tell us?
A time out. A time for contemplation, perhaps even a prayer. Purposeful and deliberative pause and reflection. Do we always want to live a life reacting to everyday events with nary a though to what we are doing? Do we want to live a life planned out for us, by us? Or do we want to look at ourselves, maybe even at stolen moments, and try to see, to feel, to understand what we are doing, who we are, what matters most in our lives?
When we look within ourselves, we may find that what stands out is not what we think is important, or what the world deems is important, or what we want to be important. Take the time to stop and think. To listen, in the silence of the moment, for a voice that is always there, guiding our lives. Each of us, whatever the age, whatever faith we believe in, can take a moment to listen and to see what stands before us.
Broken or whole, we owe it to ourselves to pause for a moment. To see that colored leaf that glows in the sun. To find within ourselves the thing that stands out. To find that even in the silence, we are not alone. That all that we are, all that we can be, is not just about you or me. It is about us. The moments of our lives that truly matter are not full of I’s. It is in the we’s the we are made whole.